Life has an uncanny way of trapping us in a web of stagnation, regret, trauma, and missed opportunities. The weight of these experiences can leave us feeling stuck, devoid of purpose and fulfillment. However, within each of us lies the capacity for change, growth, and the ability to forge a purposeful life. In this blog post, we will delve deeper into the steps required to break free from the chains that bind us. If you pay close attention to those around you, you will find that everyone has something that they need to break free from. Naturally, there are varying degrees of difficulties, levels of pain or trauma, and overall seriousness of the nature of these situations. However, the fact is that we all have things in our lives that are more hindering than they are purposeful, and breaking free is exactly what we need to start living our lives with intentionality. Embrace Change: Plunging into the Dance of TransformationAlan Watts once said, "The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance." A big part of breaking free is embracing newness and change. You have often heard that change is inevitable, yet irony lies in the fact that most people are still resistant to change. To start living your life from a standpoint of freedom, you must be willing to get uncomfortable. That means stepping out of your comfort zone and doing things differently from what you have become accustomed to. Consider the story of Steve Jobs, the co-founder of Apple Inc., who was fired from his own company in 1985. Instead of allowing regret and stagnation to consume him, Jobs chose to embrace change. He founded NeXT Inc., which ultimately led to his triumphant return to Apple and revolutionized the tech industry. Jobs' unwavering belief in his purpose propelled him forward, transforming setbacks into stepping stones towards success. Breaking free starts with your willingness to break free from the patterns of the past and embrace the transformative power of change. Healing from Trauma: Embracing Wounds as Gateways to LightThe wound is the place where the Light enters you." - Rumi. This quote by Rumi offers a profound perspective on healing from trauma. Often, those who have been wounded focus solely on the pain and setback it has caused, failing to recognize the potential for growth and transformation. But what if you saw your wounds as sources of light? What if you perceived your trauma as an opportunity to help others through their own pain, to lead them out of darkness? Oprah Winfrey, a media mogul and philanthropist, endured a traumatic childhood marked by poverty and abuse. However, she refused to let her past define her future. Through introspection and self-reflection, Oprah embarked on a healing journey. Today, she uses her platform to empower others, highlighting the importance of embracing vulnerability and transforming pain into purpose. Your wounds can be the catalysts that propel you towards a purposeful life, as you become fortified through your healing journey. Seizing Opportunities: Carpe Diem - Seize the Present MomentThe future depends on what you do today." - Mahatma Gandhi. The power of seizing opportunities lies in understanding that the only time you truly have is the present. What will you do with it? Will you continue to blame your circumstances on your upbringing, your lack of resources, or missed chances? Or will you allow these things to become the fuel behind your fire? J.K. Rowling, the renowned author of the Harry Potter series, faced countless rejections and personal struggles. However, she persevered, honing her craft and never giving up on her dreams. Rowling's unwavering determination and refusal to let missed opportunities define her are a testament to the transformative power of seizing the present moment. Today, she serves as an inspiration to aspiring writers worldwide. By embracing the opportunities that come your way and taking bold action, you can break free from stagnation and create a life filled with purpose and fulfillment. Living with Purpose: Going Beyond Happiness to Make a DifferenceThe purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well." - Ralph Waldo Emerson. Living with purpose goes beyond seeking personal happiness; it is about making a positive impact on the world around you. A purposeful life entails being compassionate, honorable, and making a difference in the lives of others. Malala Yousafzai, a Pakistani activist for female education, defied the oppressive Taliban regime to advocate for girls' right to education. Despite facing violence and trauma, Malala never wavered in her pursuit of a purposeful life. Her courage and resilience led to global recognition, and she became the youngest-ever Nobel Prize laureate. Malala's journey teaches us that living with purpose extends beyond personal fulfillment; it's about making a lasting impact on the world. By aligning your actions with your values and contributing to something greater than yourself, you can break free from the shackles of stagnation and live a purpose-driven life. ConclusionBreaking free from stagnation, regret, trauma, and missed opportunities requires an unwavering commitment to personal growth and purpose. Embrace change, recognizing its transformative power. Heal from your wounds and use your pain as a gateway to light and personal growth. Seize the opportunities that come your way, refusing to let missed chances define your journey. And above all, live with purpose, making a positive impact on the world and aligning your actions with your values. The stories of renowned individuals who have broken free and found their purpose serve as an inspiration and a reminder that you too have the power to live a purposeful life. Embrace your life's purpose, break free from the chains that bind you, and embark on a path of fulfillment and intentionality. Your purpose awaits, ready to be discovered and embraced.
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WHAT DOES IT TAKE? When you look at your dream as a factor too far-fetched to be achieved, you limit yourself to only what the eyes can see. In order for you to begin to believe that it's possible, you must be prepared to see farther than your eyes can look. Understand also that saying it's possible is not mere regurgitation, but a deeper knowing that what you believe is attainable. The fact that you don't see everything aligned right now is not reason enough to write off your dreams. You can either choose to live your dreams or live your fears. I remember a time when I thought I could do something and then I talked myself out of it. Today, I encourage you not to become that person who talk yourself out of what's possible for your life. Admittedly, it is hard believing something can happen for you when every direction in which you look, all you can perceive is bleakness. Yet, remember you must be prepared to hold on to the vision you perceive in your mind's eye. EYE SIGHT VS. MIND SIGHT George Bernard Shaw says there are three types of people in this world;
THOSE WHO ASK WHAT HAPPENED There are some people in life, they seem to be going through a perpetual state of mere existence. Every time something happens, they have a propensity to ask, what just happened? Somehow you become their unofficial teacher. These individuals seem to constantly be out of touch with reality. Trying to convince such people that their dream is possible is like trying to lift a bucket of water with one finger! Frankly, it is an exercise in futility. In order to realize your dreams and what is possible for your life, you must be mentally present. If you are always in a daze, you will never realize your greatness and like Les Brown says, "one day you will wake up and realize that you are behind on your dreams and your bills." THOSE WHO DON'T KNOW WHAT HAPPENED This second group of individuals is not far-removed from the first. When you are around them, you can't help but think they epitomize ignorance. Life happens to them without them even realizing it! When you seek to engage such people, they look at you as though you are speaking a different language. Now, here's what I want you to think about: some of us are not much different from such people, we always seem to be playing catch up to what's going on around us. The worse part about this state of existence is, some never manage to catch up to the present.
Hence, believing it's possible is not 'feel good thinking'. It is a level of assurance rooted in the word of God. Do not become a graveyard statistic by passively going through your life like tomorrow is promised! "You must be prepared to snatch victory from the jays of defeat!" - Les Brown THOSE WHO MAKE THINGS HAPPEN Finally, there are those who make things happen! This last category is where you want to intentionally place yourself. Those who make things happen are those with a larger vision of themselves and the possibilities for their dreams. They have the ability to see further than the eyes can look and when you tell them it's possible, they are likely to respond, "I know!" Don't be mistaken by the lies they tell you, that such an utterance is evidence of pride. You ought to be sufficiently reassured in your belief that your dreams are possibly! And, remember, you do not need anyone's permission to believe that. Likewise, the fact that you say it's possible does not mean you will not face turbulences. However, it is how you lead through these turbulences that will allow you to emerge with triumph! "You have everything you need to manifest your greatness now!" -Shauna-kaye Brown
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ever learning ever transformingI am intrinsically motivated by a palpable desire to help people all across the world. The graveyard is filled with people who failed to realize their greatness. Therefore, I take it as a personal responsibility to use everything in me to help you realize your greatness. ArchivesCategories
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